Uncovering the secrets of children’s personalities: strong-willed people vs. weak-willed people, which one is your baby?

Review expert: Chen Mingxin, national second-level psychological counselor, senior human resources manager

In this colorful world, every child is unique, with different personalities, interests, and behaviors. In daily conversations with parents, you may sometimes hear them use words like "strong person" and "light person" to describe their children's personality tendencies.

So, what do "dense people" and "light people" mean? Which one does your baby belong to?

The passionate "Nongren" children

Children with the "Nongren" character are usually outgoing and lively. They are enthusiastic, good at expressing themselves, and always full of energy and confidence. For such children, we can educate and guide them in the following ways:

Ignite their passion

Since they are naturally full of energy, let's turn this enthusiasm into motivation for learning! Through interesting learning activities and interactive games, let them learn in happiness and give full play to their enthusiasm.

Cultivate teamwork spirit

Children with strong personality are good at interacting with others, so they can be encouraged to participate in team activities, such as group discussions, collective projects, etc. This will not only improve their teamwork ability, but also cultivate their leadership ability.

Guiding emotional management

Because they are emotional, they may be overly excited at times, so we need to teach them how to express their emotions properly and learn to control their mood swings.

The introverted and deep "indifferent" child

In contrast to "strong" children, "light" children are usually introverted and quiet. They are good at thinking and have unique insights into things. For this type of children, we can educate and guide them in the following ways:

Respect their personal space

"Danren" children like to be alone and enjoy their own personal space. We should respect their needs and give them enough time and space to think and explore.

Stimulate their curiosity

Although they may seem calm on the surface, they may be full of curiosity in their hearts. We can stimulate their curiosity and thirst for knowledge through questions and discussions, and guide them to actively explore the world.

Encourage expression and communication

Children with indifferent personality may not be good at expressing their thoughts and feelings directly. We can encourage them to express their inner world through painting, writing or other means, while cultivating their ability to communicate with others.

Fun guide tips

Role Playing Games

Design different role-playing games for "strong" and "light" children. For example, "strong" children can play superheroes or explorers to experience adventure and excitement, while "light" children can play detectives or scientists to solve problems through observation and thinking.

Customized learning plan

We customize individualized learning plans for children based on their personality traits, such as designing lively and interesting learning activities for "strong" children and providing more quiet thinking time for "light" children.

Family interactive activities

Organize some family interaction activities, such as family debates, handicrafts, etc. This can not only enhance the interaction between family members, but also allow children to learn and grow in a relaxed and happy atmosphere.

In short, every child has his or her own unique personality and talents. As parents and educators, we should have a deep understanding of the personality characteristics of children, teach them in accordance with their aptitude, and guide them to thrive in an interesting and personalized way.

At the same time, we should also strive to create a more understanding and inclusive educational environment , allowing every individual to have some personality and attitude, and giving them enough space for self-adjustment.

No matter they are "strong people" or "light people", as long as we discover and guide them with our heart, they can all bloom with their own brilliance!